VUKANI! No. 2 2018 | Izinto Ezingu-12 Ezenza Imuli Ithokoze
Izinto Ezingu-12 Ezenza Imuli Ithokoze
Kunengi esikuzwayo okwenza imitshado ichitheke. Kodwa kuyini okwenza eminye iphumelele?
Kusukela ngomnyaka ka-1990 kusiyaku-2015, inani labantu abadivosayo abaleminyaka engu-50 laliphindwe kabili njalo elabaleminyaka ephezu kwengu-65 laliphindwe kathathu e-United States.
Abazali abasakwazi ukuthi benzeni: Ezinye izingcitshi zithi abantwana kumele bahlale benconywa kodwa ezinye zithi kufanele baphathwe ngesandla esiqinileyo.
Abasakhulayo baze babengabantu abadala bengelalwazi olungabenza baphumelele.
Lanxa kunjalo iqiniso yikuthi . . .
Umtshado ungahlala isikhathi eside njalo ube lentokozo.
Abazali bangenelisa ukuqondisa abantwababo ngothando.
Abasakhulayo bangaluthola ulwazi oluzabanceda sebekhulile.
Njani? I-Vukani le ikhuluma ngamacebo angu-12 angenza izimuli zithokoze.
1: Ukuzinikela
Amacebo amathathu angenza abatshadileyo bahlale ndawonye.
2: Ukubambisana
Umuntu otshade laye usengani ngumuntu elihlala ndawonye nje kuphela yini?
3: Ukuhloniphana
Funda amazwi lezenzo okuzakwenza umkakho abone ukuthi uyamhlonipha.
4: Ukuthethelela
Kuyini okungakunceda ukuthi ungakhangeli amaphutha enziwa ngumkakho?
5: Ukukhulumisana
Amacebo amathathu angenza uzwanane labantwabakho.
6: Ukulaya
Ukulaya kungenza umntwana azikhangelele phansi yini?
7: Ukuba Lobuntu
Abantwabakho kumele ubafundise ukuthi baphile njani?
8: Ukuba Yisibonelo Esihle
Nxa ufuna okutshela abantwabakho kuthophele enhliziyweni kumele izenzo zakho zifanane lokutshoyo.
9: Zazi Ukuthi Ungubani
Abasakhulayo bangenzani ukuze bakumele abakukholwayo?
10: Ukuthembeka
Ukwenza abazali bakho bakuthembe kuqakatheke kakhulu njengoba usiba ngumuntu omdala.
11: Ukukhuthala
Ungafunda ukusebenza nzima usakhula kuzakunceda ukuthi uphumelele kukho konke okwenzayo empilweni.
12: Hlela Ofuna Ukukwenza
Ukuphumelela ukwenza ofuna ukukwenza kungenza ungazikhangeleli phansi, uqinise ubungane futhi uthokoze kakhulu.
Okunye Okunganceda Izimuli
IBhayibhili lingakunceda ukuthi umtshado wakho uphumelele futhi ube lemuli ethokozayo.
