anushasan den da matlab bache nu sikhauna te os nu sedh dena hunda hai. kade-kade anushasan da matlab hai bache de bure vivhar nu sudharna. par aksar is vich bachya nu nek chaal-chalan rakhan di sikhya deni shamal hundi hai taaki bache sahi faisle kar sakan.

pichhle kujh dahakya to bachya nu anushasan dena lagbhag khatam hi ho gaya hai. mappe darde han ki je oh bache di galti nu sudharange, ta bacha apna aatam-sanman guaa baithega. par samajhdar mappe apne bachya layi jaaiz niyam banaunde han atey inha nu mannan di sikhlayi vi dinde han.

“bachya layi hadda thehrauniya zaroori hundiya han jinha di madad naal oh vadde ho ke samajhdar insaan banange. jis bache nu hadda vich rakh ke anushasan nahi ditta janda oh bacha bina patvar de kishti vang hai. oh kishti ja ta kinare to door chali jaegi ja dub javegi.”​—pamela.

apni gal te pakke raho. je tuhada bacha tuhade niyama di paalna nahi karda, ta os nu os de natije bhugtan dyo. dooje pase, jado bacha kehne vich rehnda hai, ta os di tareef karan vich dhill-math na karo.

“jado mere bache mera kehna mannde han, ta mai hamesha ohna nu shabashi dindi ha kyoki asi ik anagyakar duniya vich rehnde ha. jado bache di tareef keeti jandi hai, ta os layi tarrna kabool karni vi saukhi hundi hai.”​—kristeen.

bible da asool: “insaan jo beejda hai, ohi vadd-da hai.”​—galatiya 6:7.

haddo vadh umeed na rakho. galti di ganbheerta de naal-naal bache di umar atey samajh nu dhyaan vich rakhdya anushasan dyo. vadiya hovega ki tarrna ja saza galti de mutabak hi hove. misal layi, je bacha mobile di galat varto karda hai, ta mappe shayad os to kujh same layi mobile lai lain. bachya nu ohna chhotiya-chhotiya galla layi gusse na hove jo tuhanu pasand nahi.

“mai hamesha eh dekhan di koshish karda ha ki mere bache ne jaan-bujh ke mera kehna nahi mannya ja os ne anjane vich idda keeta hai. ki eh bahut vaddi samassya hai jis karke os nu vaar-vaar sudharan di lorr paini, ja ik chhoti jehi gal hai jo iko vaar kehen te khatam ho jani.”​—wendell.

bible da asool: “pitao, apne bachya nu na khijhao taaki oh dil na haar baithan.”​—kulussiya 3:21.

pyaar naal sudharo. jado bachya nu pata hunda hai ki mappe pyaar karan karke tarrna de rahe han, ta ohna layi os tarrna nu manna te os te chalna saukha hunda hai.

“jado sadda munda galtiya karda si, ta asi os nu is gal da bharosa divaunde si ki sanu os de pehla keete change faislya karke os te maan hai. asi os nu samjhaya ki je oh apni galti nu sudhar lainda hai, ta os da na kharab nahi hovega. nale asi os nu keha ki asi os di madad karan layi hamesha tyaar ha.”​—daniel.

bible da asool: “pyaar dheerajvan atey dyaalu hai.”​—1 kurinthiya 13:4.