sare insaan aap faisla karde han ki oh kinha kadra-keemta ja sanskara anusar jeeunge. misal layi, ki tusi har kamm eemandari naal karde ho? je ha, ta zaroor tusi chahoge ki tuhade bache vi eemandar hon.

kadra-keemta vich naitik myaar vi shamal han. misal layi, jis insaan de naitik myaar vadiya hunde han oh mehnti hunda, pakhpaat nahi karda te doosrya da dhyaan rakhda hai. chhoti umar vich idda de gunna nu paida karna sabh to vadiya sama hunda hai.

bible da asool: “balak nu oh da theek raah sikhla, ta oh vadda ho ke vi os to kadi na hatega.”​—kahauta 22:6.

technology de zamane vich kadra-keemta ja sanskar hone bahut zaroori han. karen na di maa dassdi hai ki “asi mobile de zariye kise vi vele galat kamma vich fass sakde ha. shayad sadde bache sadde lage hi baithe hi kujh galat dekhde hon te sanu is gal di koi khabar vi na hove!”

bible da asool: samajhdar lok “sochan-samjhan di kableeat nu vaar-vaar istemal kar ke sahi te galat vich farak dekhan de mahar bann gaye han.”​—ibraniya 5:14.

naitik myaar vi zaroori han. is vich chhotiya-chhotiya galla kehniya shamal han (jive ki “please” atey “thank you” kehna). is de naal-naal is vich doojya bare sochna vi shamal hai. eh ajeha myaar hai jo ajj bahut hi ghatt lokaa vich dekhan nu milda hai kyoki ajj-kal insaan lokaa nalo cheeza di ziada parvah karde han.

bible da asool: “jis tarha tusi chahunde ho ki doosre tuhade naal pesh aun, tusi vi ohna naal ose tarha pesh aao.”​—luka 6:31.

apnia naitik kadra-keemta dasso. misal layi, reporta to pata laggda hai jinha bachya nu pehla hi dassya janda hai ki viah to pehla sareerak sambandh banaune galat han, ta allarh umar vich oh is fande vich nahi fasange.

sujhaa: apne bachya naal galbat shuru karan layi tusi koi khabar da zikar kar ke apnia kadra-keemta bare samjha sakde ho. misal layi, tusi apradh bare koi khabar lai ke puchh sakde ho: “kinni maarri gal hai ki lok doosrya te kidda gussa kadhde han. oh idda kyo karde han? tuhanu ki laggda?”

“je bachya nu sahi te galat vich farak na pata hove, ta ohna layi sahi te galat vich pachhan karni aukhi ho sakdi hai.”​—brandon.

apne bachya nu naitik myaar sikhao. chhote bache vi doosrya nu “please” atey “thank you” kehna te doosrya di izzat karni sikh sakde han. ik kitab kehndi hai: “jado bache dekhde han ki oh ik parivar, school, sabhyaachar da hissa han, ta oh idda de kamm karan layi tyaar ho jande han jinha da na sirf ohna nu sago sarya nu faida hunda hai.”​—Parenting Without Borders.

sujhaa: apne bachya nu chhote-chhote kamm dyo taaki oh doosrya di seva karan de faidya bare sikhan.

“je bacha hune to hi chhote-chhote kamm karne sikhda hai, ta jado oh apne paira te kharha ho javega, os layi kamm karne aukhe nahi honge. os layi zimmevariya nibhauniya saukhiya ho jaangiya.”​—tara.