naujavana layi
9: pachhan banao
is da ki matlab hai?
tuhadi pachhan tuhade naam ja bahri roop to kite vadh ke hundi hai. tuhadi pachhan vich tuhadi shakhseeat, tuhadiya kadra-keemta, tuhade vishvas shamal han. tuhadi pachhan to sarya nu pata laggega ki “tusi” andaro atey bahro keho jehe insaan ho.
eh zaroori kyo hai?
jado tuhadi apni pachhan hundi hai, ta tusi apne dosta de dabaa heth aa ke apne vishvasa naal samjhauta nahi karde.
“ajj bahut sare lok dukana vich paye putlya varge hunde han. doosre ohna layi faisla karde han ki oh keho jehe kapde paunge na ki oh aap.”—adrian.
“mai sahi gal da saath dena sikhya hai bhave idda karna mere layi kadi-kadi aukha hunda hai. mere sache dost ohi han jinha samne mai khull ke gal kar sakda ha kyoki oh mere myaara di izzat karde han.”—courtney.
bible da asool: “is duniya de lokaa di nakal karni chhadd dyo, sago apne aap nu poori tarha badlan layi apni soch nu badlo.”—romiya 12:2.
tusi ki kar sakde ho?
apnia khoobiya, kamzoriya te vishvasa de zariye apni janch kar ke dekho ki tusi hun kidda de insaan ho te tusi kidda de insaan banna chahunde ho. hetha ditte savaala di madad naal tusi apni janch kar sakde ho.
khoobiya: mere vich kehrre hunar atey kableeata han? kehrre kamm mai sabh to vadiya tareeke naal kar sakda ha? (misal layi: ki mai same sir kamm karda ha? ki mai sanjmi, mehnti te khulle dil vala ha?) mai hor kehrre change kamm karda ha?
sujhaa: ki tuhanu apne vich change gunn dekhne aukhe laggde? kyo na apne mata-pita ja kise bharosemand dost to puchho ki tuhade vich kehrriya khoobiya han te ohna nu eh khoobiya kyo pasand han?
bible da asool: “har insaan khud apne kamm di janch kare. is tarha karan naal oh apne kamm to khush hovega. oh apni tulna kise hor naal na kare.”—galatiya 6:4.
kamzoriya: mainu apne vich kehrriya galla vich sabh to ziada sudhar karan di lorr hai? mera mann kado mainu koi galat kamm karan layi sabh to ziada uksaunda hai? kehrriya galla vich mainu hor ziada sanjam dikhaun di lorr hai?
bible da asool: “je asi kehnde ha: ‘sadde vich paap nahi hai,’ ta asi apne aap nu dhokha de rahe ha.”—1 yoohanna 1:8.
vishvas: mere naitik myaar ki han te mainu eh kyo pasand han? ki mai rab vich vishvas karda ha? kehrre saboota to mainu yakeen hoya hai ki rab hai? bhavikh bare meri ki rai hai?
bible da asool: “matt teri palna karegi, atey samajh teri rakhi karegi.”—kahauta 2:11.
