jehrre pati-patni ik-dooje da saath nibhauna chahunde han, oh viah de bandhan nu umar bhar da bandhan samjhde han. is karke ohna nu koi dar ja shakk nahi hunda, sago dona nu bharosa hunda hai ki ohna da sathi mushkla bhare same vich vi rishta nahi torrega.

kujh jorre samaaj ja parivarak dabaa karke hi ikatthe rehnde han. par behtar hovega ki oh pyaar atey aadar karke ik-dooje da saath nibhaun.

bible da asool: “pati . . . apni patni nu na chhadde.”​—1 kurinthiya 7:11.

“je tusi saath nibhaun da irada keeta hoya hai, ta tusi chheti gusse nahi hovoge. tusi jaldi ik-dooje nu maaf karoge atey ik-dooje to maafi mangoge. tusi viah vich aundiya mushkla nu chhotiya-chhotiya rukavta samjhoge, na ki talak lain da bahana.”​—micah.

jinha jorrya da saath nibhaun da irada nahi hunda, oh mushkla aun te kehnde han, ‘asi ik-dooje layi bane hi nahi’ atey oh ik-dooje nu chhaddan de bahane labhde han.

“bahut sare lok viah karaun vele eh soch rakhde han ki je ohna di na nibhi, ta oh talak ta lai hi sakde han. jado lok eho jehi soch rakh ke viah karaunde han, ta ohna da hamesha layi saath nibhaun da irada pehla to hi kamzor hunda hai.”​—jean.

apni janch karo

jado jhagrra ho reha hunda, ta . . .

• ki mai eh sochda ki kaash mai is naal viah hi na keeta hunda?

• ki mai apne sathi de bajaye kise hor de supne dekhda ha?

• ki mai apne sathi nu eh kehnda: “mai tainu chhadd ke chala” ja “mai kise hor nu labhanga jo meri kadar karega”?

je tuhade ik ja ziada javab “ha” vich han, ta tuhanu saath nibhaun de apne irade nu mazboot karan di lorr hai.

apne sathi naal mil ke inha savaala te charcha karo

• ki saath nibhaun da sadda irada pehla nalo kamzor pai gaya hai? je ha, ta kyo?

• asi apne irade nu mazboot karan layi kehrre kadam chukk sakde ha?

sujhaa

• kade-kade apne sathi nu likh ke dasso ki tusi os naal pyaar karde ho

• kamm di tha te apne jeevan sathi di photo rakho

• kamm te hundya ja jado tusi apne jeevan sathi de naal nahi hunde, ta os nu phone karo

bible da asool: “jinha nu parmeshwar ne is bandhan vich banneya hai, koi vi insaan ohna nu add na kare.”​—matti 19:6.