asi viah atey talaak sambandhi bible da nazria apnaunde ha. rab ne aadmi atey aurat de viah nu atutt rishte de taur ’te jorrya si. bible anusar sirf haramkari hi talaak lain di ikko ik vajha hai.—matti 19:​5, 6, 9.

 ji ha, kayi tareekya naal:

•   prakashan. same-same ’te chhapde eh prakashan viahuta rishte nu mazboot kar sakde han. ihna prakashana raahi ohna jodya di vi madad ho sakdi hai jinha da rishta dobara jurran di umeed shayad nazar nahi aaundi. misal layi, eh lekh dekho: “umar bhar apne jeevan-saathi da saath nibhao,” “maaf kive kariye?” atey “dobara bharosa jittan di koshish karo.”

•   meetinga. asi apnia meetinga, assemblya atey vadde sammelna vich viahuta rishte naal sambandhi bible diya salaha ’te charcha karde ha.

•   bazurg. mandli de bazurg bible vicho afsiya 5:22-25 varge havalya val viahuta jodya da dhyaan khich ke nijji taur ’te ohna di madad karde han.

 nahi. itho tak ki jado koi viahuta jorra apne rishte vich aaundiya mushkla da samna karan layi bazurga to madad mangda hai, taa vi bazurga kol ohna nu eh dassan da adhikar nahi ki ohna ne kee karna hai. (galatiya 6:5) par jehrra vi bible vich ditte talaak de kaaran to ilava kise hor kaaran karke talaak lain da faisla karda hai, bible vich os nu dobara viah karaun di ijazat nahi ditti gayi hai.—1 timothius 3:​1, 5, 12.

 bible viahuta jodya nu hallasheri dindi hai ki oh ikatthe rehen bhave halaata da samna karna thoda aukha hi kyo na lagge. (1 kurinthiya 7:​10-​16) dilo prarthna karan, bible de asoola nu laagu karan atey pyaar dikhaun naal bahut sariya samassyaava naal najithya ja sakda hai.​—1 kurinthiya 13:​4-8; galatiya 5:​22.

 fir vi, bahut ziada aukhe halaata kaaran kujh masihiya ne apne viahuta saathi to alag hon da faisla keeta hai. ihna halaata vicho kujh eh han:

•   jaan-bujh ke parivar diya lorra da dhyaan na rakhna.​—1 timothius 5:8.

•   bahut ziada sareerak kasht dene.​—zaboor 11:5.

•   parmeshwar naal rishta tuttan di naubat aa jani. misal layi, pati ja patni apne saathi nu zabardasti parmeshwar da koi hukam torran layi majboor kare, taa ajehi darauni sathiti da samna kar reha saathi shayad eh faisla kare ki ‘insaana di bajaye parmeshwar da hukam mannan’ layi alag hona hi sahi hai.—rasoola de kamm 5:29.