Nyengo zinyake para munyithu wakulira chifukwa chakuti mubali wake wafwa, ise mahara ghangatimalira. Tingasoŵa chakuyowoya panji chakuchita. Ntheura tingakhala waka chete. Kweni vilipo ivyo tingachita ivyo vingawovwira.

Kanandi icho chikukhumbika ntchakuti ise tiŵe pafupi na kuyowoya waka umo nase vyatikhwaskira. Mu vigaŵa vinandi, munthu uyo mubali wake wafwa wakujipulikako makora para munyake wamuvumbatira panji wamukora kawoko fyee! Para uyo mubali wake wafwa wakukhumba kuyowoya, mupulikizgani mwakufwasa. Pa vyose, wovwirani ŵa panyumba awo mubali wawo wafwa. Mungaŵavwirako ntchito za pa nyumba, nga nkhuŵaphikira chakurya, kupwelelera ŵana, panji kovwirapo vinyake ivyo vikukhumbikwa pa nyifwa. Ivyo mungachita ndivyo vikovwira chomene kuluska mazgu agho mungayowoya.

Para pajumpha nyengo, mungayowoyapo vya uyo wali kufwa, chomenechomene viwemi ivyo wakachitanga panji mukachitiranga lumoza. Vyanthena ivi vingawovwira uyo mubali wake wali kufwa kujipulikako makora. Ian, mfumu wa Pam, wali kufwa vyaka 6 ivyo vyajumpha. Pam wakuti: “Nyengo zinyake ŵanthu ŵakuniphalira viwemi ivyo Ian wakachitanga, ivyo ine nkhavimanyanga yayi. Para napulika ivi, nkhujipulika makora mu mtima.”

 Ukaboni ukulongora kuti ŵanthu ŵakumovwira chomene munthu para mubali wake wafwa waka. Kweni para pajumpha kanyengo, wakukhala yekha joo chifukwa ŵanthu wose ŵakutangwanika na milimo yawo. Ntheura mungachita makora kuti nyengo na nyengo mulutenge kukamuwona mubwezi winu uyo mubali wake wali kufwa. * Ŵanandi ŵakuwonga chomene para ŵanyawo ŵakuŵawona nyengo na nyengo chifukwa vikuŵawovwira kuti chitima chichepeko.

Wonani ivyo vikachitikira mwanakazi munyake wa ku Japan zina lake Kaori. Mwanakazi uyu anyina ŵakafwa, ndipo pakati pajumpha myezi 15 mukuru wake nayo wakafwa. Uwemi ngwakuti iyo wakaŵa na ŵabwezi awo ŵakamovwiranga nyengo zose. Mama munyake zina lake Ritsuko wakajipeleka kuti waŵe mubwezi wake wapamtima, nangauli ni mulara chomene kwa Kaori. Kaori wakuti: “Kuyowoya unenesko, nkhakondwa yayi na fundo iyi. Nkhakhumba yayi kuti munthu munyake wanjire mu malo gha amama, ndipo nkhawonanga kuti palije uyo wangachita nthena. Kweni pakuwona umo Mama Ritsuko wakachitiranga nane, tikamba kutemwana chomene. Sabata yiliyose tikalutanga lumoza kukapharazga na ku maungano gha mpingo. Ŵakanichemanga kuti tikamwere lumoza tiyi, ŵakaninyamuliranga chakurya, na kunilembera makalata na makadi kanandi waka. Ivyo Mama Ritsuko wakanichitira vikanovwira kuti nijipulikeko makora.”

Pajumpha vyaka 12 kufuma apo anyina Kaori ŵakafwira, ndipo lero iyo na mfumu wake ŵakupharazga vya Ufumu nyengo zose. Kaori wakuti: “Mama Ritsuko wachali kunighanaghanira. Nyengo zose para naluta kukaya, nkhukamuwona kweniso nkhukondwa kuchezga nayo.”

Munthu munyake uyo wawovwirika chifukwa chakuti ŵanyake ŵakumuwona nyengo zose ni Poli, uyo ni Kaboni wa Yehova wa ku Cyprus. Poli wakaŵa na mwanalume walusungu, zina lake Sozos. Sozos wakaŵa muliska muwemi ndipo wakachemanga ŵalanda na vyokoro ku nyumba yawo kukachezga na kurya chakurya. (Yakobe 1:27) Chachitima ntchakuti Sozos wakafwa na chakutupa mu wongo apo wakaŵa na vyaka 53. Poli wakuti: “Nkhataya mfumu wane wakugomezgeka uyo tikakhalira lumoza mu nthengwa vyaka 33.”

Ŵakati ŵasunga nyifwa, Poli wakasamira ku Canada pamoza na mwana wake muchoko chomene Daniel wa vyaka 15. Ŵakati ŵafika kura, ŵakamba kuwungana na mpingo wa Ŵakaboni ŵa Yehova. Poli wakuti: “Ŵabali mu mpingo wasono uwu ŵakamanyanga yayi umo vinthu vikaŵira uko tafuma kweniso masuzgo ghithu. Kweni ŵakalekapo yayi kutichezgera na kutiphalira mazgu ghawemi kweniso kutovwira mu nthowa zinyake. Wovwiri wawo ukaŵa wakuzirwa chomene, chifukwa mwana wane wakakhumbikwiranga chomene awiske pa nyengo yira. Ŵabali awo ŵakulongozga mu mpingo ŵakamutemwanga chomene Daniel. Pakaŵa mubali yumoza uyo wakatemwanga kumutora Daniel para wakuluta kukachezga na ŵanyake panji para ŵakuluta kukatchaya bola.” Sono Poli na mwana wake ŵakuchita makora.

Pali nthowa zinandi chomene izo tingawovwilira na kupembuzga awo ŵakulira. Baibolo nalo likutipembuzga na chigomezgo chiwemi cha munthazi.